Friday, November 2, 2007

TMC & LMH - Welcome back to SIN

BL & Karen prepared a yummy spread of food for us
There was plenty to eat and wine
also dessert of rainbow jelly
& champagne shaped chocolates.
the group at BL's house.....then came
NCK....with the MGS girls

Much to talk too...
the ever-popular who moved SML's chair incident
following by the canning by Mr Bandar.
Then the writing of lines
how YPH (ic for collecting the completed lines)
noticed TBS being paid for writing lines!
and over anxious KSC
when she was free at home then
she could write the lines in advance!

Also there was the men's only corner
with their talk-shop by the window

and the mystery of the night...
Where is Jerry?
The group waited for his return

after fetching YKE home.
30 minutes
45 minutes
call his mobile
no response?
!*&#!
we declared him MIAThis picture was taken by Tom himself!
Let's give Tom a big *clap*
He has to rush to take
the ferry to SIN after work ...
then upon arrival at Harbourfront
took a taxi to BL's house.
And next morning
wake up early to catch the 1st ferry.
Thanks for making the extra mile (literally)

Thursday, October 25, 2007

2001 Dec - HK & PH at Lay's house




Baking bread and eating together

Tuesday, October 23, 2007

TAKE HOLD OF EVERY MOMENT

TAKE HOLD OF EVERY MOMENT
(a friend emailed me this article)

A friend of mine opened
his wife's underwear drawer
and picked up
a silk paper wrapped package:
"This, - he said -
isn't any ordinary package."
He unwrapped the box
and stared at both
the silk paper and the box.
"She got this the first time
we went to New York,
8 or 9 years ago.
She has never put it on.
Was saving it for a special occasion.
Well, I guess this is it.
He got near the bed
and placed the gift box
next to the other clothings
he was taking to the funeral house,
his wife had just died.
He turned to me and said:
"Never save something for a special occasion.
Every day
in your life
is a special occasion".

I still think those words
changed my life.
Now I read more
and clean less.
I sit on the porch
without worrying about anything.
I spend more time with my family,
and less at work.
I understood that life
should be a source of experience
to be lived up to,
not survived through.
I no longer keep anything.
I use crystal glasses every day.
I'll wear new clothes
to go to the supermarket,
if i feel like it.
I don't save my special perfume
for special occasions,
I use it whenever I want to.
The words
"Someday..."
and "One Day..."
are fading away
from my dictionary.
If it's worth seeing,
listening or doing,
I want to see,
listen or do it now.
I don't know
what my friend's wife
would have done
if she knew
she wouldn't
be there
the next morning,
this nobody can tell.
I think she
might have called
her relatives
and closest friends.
She might call old friends
to make peace
over past quarrels.
I'd like to think she would
go out for Chinese,
her favourite food.
It's these small things
that I would regret not doing,
if I knew my time had come.
I would regret it,
because I would no longer
see the friends I would meet,
letters that i wanted to write
"One of this days".
I would regret and feel sad,
because I didn't say
to my brothers and sons,
not times enough at least,
how much I love them.
Now, I try not to delay,
postpone or keep anything
that could bring
laughter and joy
into our lives.
And, on each morning,
I say to myself that
this could be a special day.
Each day,
each hour,
each minute,
is special.

Sunday, October 14, 2007

Contrbutions fron NCK - One Liners

[1] Regular naps prevent old age, especially if you take them while driving.
[2] Having one child makes you a parent; having two you are a referee.
[3] Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right and the other is the husband!
[4] I believe we should all pay our tax with a smile. I tried - but they wanted cash.
[5] A child's greatest period of growth is the month after you've purchased new school uniforms.
[6] Don't feel bad. A lot of people have no talent.
[7] Don't marry the person you want to live with, marry the one you cannot live without, but whatever you do, you'll regret it later.
[8] You can't buy love, but you pay heavily for it.
[9] Bad officials are elected by good citizens who do not vote.
[10] Laziness is nothing more than the habit of resting before you get tired.
[11] Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway.
[12] My wife and I always compromise. I admit I'm wrong and she agrees with me.
[13] Those who can't laugh at themselves leave the job to others.
[14] Ladies first. Pretty ladies sooner.
[15] A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.
[16] You're getting old when you enjoy remembering things more than doing them.
[17] It doesn't matter how often a married man changes his job, he still ends up with the same boss.
[18] Real friends are the ones who survive transitions between address books.
[19] Saving is the best thing. Especially when your parents have done it for you.
[20] Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools talk because they have to say something
[21] They call our language the mother tongue because the father seldom gets to speak!

Sat 13 Oct @ BTNR

Agnes SBK was unable to come &
David's trip was cancelled.

David & Karen together with Lay & her friend Evelyn, went to BTNR

We took another route which is an-hour walk.....
up and down, down and up
between narrow path of the 'trees & valleys.....
looking anxiously for the main road
200 metres, 100 metres...
we walked on and finally we completed!
While leaving BTNR, it start to rain.....heavily!
As the saying going.....as changeable as the weather!
Yummy.......we had MacDonalds at Queensway
(next to Far East Flora along Commonwealth)

Monday, October 8, 2007

Sat 6 Oct (morning) @ BTNR

David & Karen together with Lay
went to climb Bukit Timah Nature Reserve today

The climb was a little steep and weather was warm
but reaching the submit was a joy!
Place : Outside COURTS Furniture Store at Bukit Timah
Bus to COURTS : SBS 170 TIBS 67 75 171 173 184 852 961
Car : There is a car park at the foot of the BTNR

Sunday, October 7, 2007

Sat 6 Oct (evening) - Dinner with Linda FML

We met at Hougang Mall, had a drink and proceed for dinner.
Then off to SML's house.
Can you identify Linda FML?

Friday, September 28, 2007

Bukit Timah Nature Reserve



At the last gathering at Hougang Mall in July 2007, Jerry TSH shared with me that he goes climb/walk BTNR on Thursdays after work with his colleagues. Believe this, they do it weekly except for rain. It does not take alot of time. By 7pm they are down at the foot of BTNR.It is just a short climb/walk. Short climb/walk, but body is exercised, relaxed & one enjoy the nature around....and enjoy each other company.

So...Charltonees...anyone out there game for a climb/walk?

We can do it on a Saturday morning and see how it work out.
Who knows? As BL said, it may be a start of a fun thing
to do regularly, say once a month, twice.....whatever

So Jerry, over to you...

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Photo from David

The former National Theatre & Van Cleef Aquarium
I recalled I went there for election briefing (worked as clerk at the polling station) when there was election. When it rained, we can get wet cause it is 'open surroundings'. The aquarium was small and not much fish tanks but it was the thing that time & it was a treat to be there to enjoy looking at the fishes and getting wet by standing near the water fountain. This remain me of today's fountain at Bugis Junction where kids get wet playing with the water!

Friday, September 21, 2007

We remember Heng Hong Kim

This photo, taken in 1980, was emailed to me by SC last week. On the top left is Heng Hong Kim
She left us in July 2003
after she lost her battle to cancer.
PH & I visited her in early 2003
Despite her weak ill
she was cheerful & chatty.
She became a grandma in early 2003.
She showed us her pretty collection of MacDonald toys
[will post photo after I get from PH]

Tuesday, September 11, 2007

Ms Lau + Lay = a game of tennis

During our gathering with Ms Lau, she shares with us that she plays tennis.
We can join her if we are keen. I took up the offer and is now playing with her.

Don't play play, Ms Lau is good at tennis, skillful strokes and her service are aces.
Just as when I was in school, I learnt from her.
Now at the tennis court, I am learning from her.
活到老, 学到老

Anyone out there for tennis?

Friday, September 7, 2007

ICE- In Case of Emergency

Isn't it true that we all carry our mobile phones with hundreds of names/numbers stored in its memory but yet nobody, other than ourselves, know which of these numbers belong to our near and dear ones?
ICE
Let us for a moment create a scenario wherein we are involved in an accident or had a heart attack and the people attending us get hold of our mobile phone but don't know which number to call to inform our family members.

Yes, there are hundreds of numbers stored but which one is the contact person in case of an emergency? For this reason, we must have one or more telephone numbers stored under the name ICE (In case of Emergency) in our mobile phones.

Recently, the concept of "ICE" is catching up quickly. It is simple, an important method of contact during emergency situations. As cell phones are carried by majority of the population, all you need to do is store the number of a contact person or person who should be contacted at during emergency as "ICE" (meaning In Case of Emergency ).

The idea was thought up by a paramedic who found that when they went to the scenes of accidents, there were always mobile phones with patients, but they didn't know which number to call. He therefore thought that it would be a good idea if there was a nationally recognized name for this purpose.

Following a disaster in London , the East Anglican Ambulance Service has launched a national "In case of Emergency (ICE)"campaign. In an emergency situation, Emergency Service personnel and hospital staff would then be able to quickly contact your next of kin, by simply dialing the number stored as "ICE".

Wednesday, September 5, 2007

Let's hear from BL

Many Things to Thank For!

Thank you Lord for my wife who is always busy in the house,
This meant she is home and not out shopping and spending money.
Thank you Lord for my husband who is a couch potato,
This meant he is home and not out at a bar with some honey.

Thank you Lord that each day I have to scream
And wake up the children and get them to school,
This meant that I have been blessed with children
And each day my hours spent are joyous and meaningful.

Thank you Lord for my teenager who is always on the internet
This meant that she is home, and not roaming with bad hats.

Thank you Lord for an office to go and have a boss
This meant that I have a job, not idling and feeling lost.

Thank you Lord that I am not anxious about the future,
That I forget the present, and live life without cheer.

Thank you Lord for the gift to earn money and be wealthy
And need not see doctors to spend money to stay healthy.

Thank you Lord for the many outings I have to attend
This meant that I have friends to joke and play pranks.

Thank you Lord that my life has been rich and fulfilling
Not that I have everything but that I lack nothing.

Thank you Lord that I have a bed
That I can sleep soundly each night;
This meant that I have a blessed home
Resting & knowing that everything is all right.

Thank you Lord when the alarm screams each morning,
It means that I have not lost my hearing!
Hallelujah, I am still alive for another day!

Adapted by David Loh

Monday, September 3, 2007

2005 : David with PM Lee Hsien Loong

Chinese New Year Istana Garden Party at Istana. BL is with the Aljunied Grassroots Committee

Wednesday, August 29, 2007

Guess who?

She is standing between Mui Hiang (on your right) & Puay Hoon (on your left)

She is Foo Meng Lin
A regular golfer today!

Monday, August 20, 2007

1964 - Camaraderie at age 12

When asked who was responsible for ML's fall,
the boys kept mum....

though the principal, Mr Banda insisted
that all boys would be severely reprimanded!

the boys kept to their stand
till the very end.

during that gloomy but sunny morning assembly
the boys waited for their doom.

Mr Banda with his bushy goatie
one hand up with the cane
and next strike each boy's palm twice.

the entire school witnessed in silence
as Mr Banda continuously strike.

but the boys knew no pain
for deep in their hearts
comradeship warms them.

BTW, could that guy please identify yourself
cause it has been 44 years
since that strike of cane!

Thursday, August 16, 2007

1970 - ALL THOSE BORN BEFORE 1970's

First, we survived being born to mothers who had no full time maids/cooked food/cleaned the house while they carried us.

They took aspirin, ate cheese, sweet dishes and didn't get tested for diabetes.

Then after that trauma, our baby cribs were covered with bright coloured lead-based paints.

We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, doors or cabinets and when we rode our bikes,
we had no helmets, not to mention, the risks we took hitch-hiking.

As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or air bags.
Riding in the back of a local bus/train was a special treat.

We drank water from the tap and NOT from a bottle.

We would spend hours on the terrace under bright sunlight flying our kites, without worrying about the UV effect which never ever effect us.

We shared one soft drink with four friends, from one bottle and
NO ONE actually died from this.

We ate pastries, white bread and real butter and drank soft drinks with sugar in it, but we weren't overweight because......WE WERE ALWAYS OUTSIDE PLAYING!!

We would leave home in the morning and play all day, as long as we were back when the street lights came on. No one was able to reach us all day. And we were O.K.

We would spend hours repairing our outdated bicycle and scooter out of scraps and then ride down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into the bushes a few times, we learned to solve the problem.

We did not have Play Stations, Nintendo's, X-boxes, no video games at all, no 99 channels on cable, no video tape movies, no surround sound, no cell phones, no personal computers, no Internet or Internet chat rooms!
WE HAD FRIENDS.
We went outside and found them!

We fell out of trees, got cut, broke bones and teeth and there were no lawsuits from these accidents.

We ate worms and mud pies made from dirt, and the worms did not live in us forever.

We were never given BB guns for our 10th birthdays.

We made up games with sticks and tennis balls and although we were told it would happen, we did not put out very many eyes.

We rode bikes or walked to a friend's house and knocked on the door or rang the bell, or just yelled for them!

Cricket League had try-outs and not everyone made the team. Those who didn't had to learn to deal with disappointment. Imagine that!!

The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke the law was unheard of.
They actually sided with the law!

This generation has produced some of the
best risk-takers,
problem solvers and
inventors ever!

The past 50 years have been an explosion of
innovation and new ideas.

We had
freedom,
failure,
success,
responsibility, and
we learned
HOW TO DEAL WITH IT ALL!

Tuesday, August 14, 2007

1968 (after O Levels) at seaside

The boy between Peng Chua & Lip Mong is Lip Mong's friend

1998 at BL's Hougang's Home


Monday, August 13, 2007

2009 Jan 3 Saturday - Class of 1964 celebrates

Ms Lau asked :
Is Yr 2009 the 50th anniversary? (1964 - 2009)

Peng Chua replied:
OOOphs, we did not do very well in arithmetic. How in the world did we come up with 3rd jan 2009 = 50th anniversary??
Must be the strong coffee at Paramount. Anyway Who cares !!!! every day and every year we survive is a call for celebration !!!

1970 (Early 1970s)



1984 Nov

Sai Choo to Lay : Do you remember this? You have sent to me on 20 Nov 1984. I am still keeping it.

Tuesday, August 7, 2007

Friday, August 3, 2007

Class of 1962 - Primary 4


Nov 2006



at Heartland Mall & Serangoon Gardens

Wednesday, August 1, 2007

28 July 2007

at Coffee Bean, Serangoon Gardens
(Former Paramount Theatre)

at SIAM Kitchen, Hougang Mall

10 Dec 2006

at Greenland Vegetarian,
Upper Serangoon Road

24 Sep 2006

at Crystal Jade Restaurant,
Holland Village

3 August 2006

at Maxwell Food Centre

22 August 2005

at Greenland Vegetarian Restaurant,
Upper Serangoon Road

29 Sep 2004

at Vegetarian Restaurant,
Orchard Point

16 Sep 2002

Kah Eng, Woon Lee Cheng, Peck Heah, Shirley & Lay


Dec 2001

Lay, Peck Heah & Hong Kim

Monday, July 30, 2007

We are from the class of 1964 when we were 12 years old. Some of us still touch base with each other. for those whom we had lost touch, we are looking out for you....cause we are planning for a big get-together on Sat 3 Jan in 2009
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